The right response to “You deserve better”

When someone tells you you deserve better, it can be a complex sentiment that can evoke…

How to respond to “Don’t be sad, it’s just a breakup”

When someone tells you Don’t be sad, it’s just a breakup, it can come across as…

What to say when they ask “Why are you always working out/studying/etc.?”

Being dedicated to your fitness goals or academic pursuits is a great way to prioritize your…

What to say when they ask “Are you okay?” when you’re not

Handling conversations about our well-being can be daunting, especially when we’re not feeling our best. When…

What to say when they ask “Can I join you?” when you’re trying to be alone

The art of politely declining an invitation to join someone when all you want is some…

What to say when they claim they’re “just self-medicating”

When a family member claims they’re just self-medicating, it can be a frustrating and concerning situation.…

Navigating conversations about their past traumas

Handling conversations about sensitive topics, especially those related to family members’ past traumas, requires empathy, understanding,…

How to shut down gaslighting in a relationship

Dealing with gaslighting in a relationship can be a draining and toxic experience. It’s essential to…

Learning to prioritize self-care: “Can you take care of my pet while I’m away?”

Effective communication is key to maintaining healthy relationships and setting boundaries that prioritize self-care. One of…

The power of saying no to emotional labor: “Can you listen to me vent?”

Emotional labor, a term coined by sociologist Arlie Hochschild, refers to the emotional demands placed on…