What to say when they claim they’re “just self-medicating”

When a family member claims they’re just self-medicating, it can be a frustrating and concerning situation.…

Navigating conversations about their past traumas

Handling conversations about sensitive topics, especially those related to family members’ past traumas, requires empathy, understanding,…

How to shut down gaslighting in a relationship

Dealing with gaslighting in a relationship can be a draining and toxic experience. It’s essential to…

Learning to prioritize self-care: “Can you take care of my pet while I’m away?”

Effective communication is key to maintaining healthy relationships and setting boundaries that prioritize self-care. One of…

The power of saying no to emotional labor: “Can you listen to me vent?”

Emotional labor, a term coined by sociologist Arlie Hochschild, refers to the emotional demands placed on…

Caring for yourself in romantic relationships: “Can I move in with you?”

As we navigate the complexities of romantic relationships, it’s easy to get caught up in the…

Learning to prioritize your own needs: “Can you help me with my project?”

When it comes to saying no to others and prioritizing your own needs, it can be…

The power of saying no to FOMO: “Are you coming to the party tonight?”

In today’s fast-paced world, it’s easy to get caught up in theFear of Missing Out (FOMO)…

How to respond to “You owe me one”

Dealing with guilt trips and manipulative phrases can be draining, especially when someone says You owe…

Learning to prioritize: “Can you watch my kids for a few hours?”

When it comes to taking care of ourselves, one of the most important skills we can…