Best way to answer “Can we talk about our boundaries?”

Understanding the request When a partner asks to discuss boundaries, the moment feels both important and…

Tips for responding to “I feel guilty taking up your time”

Understanding why “I feel guilty taking up your time” shows up in relationships When a partner…

Ways to respond when they say “I’m done with League for now”

Understanding the pause When a partner says “I’m done with League for now,” it signals a…

What to say when a friend admits they’ve been texting themselves for practice

Understanding why a friend texts themselves When a friend admits they’ve been sending messages to their…

How to respond to “My calendar just scheduled a meeting with my future self”

When a friend jokes that their calendar just scheduled a meeting with their future self, the…

What to say when someone admits they’ve been talking to their plants

When a friend shares that they chat with their houseplants, you want to respond in a…

What to say when your spouse mentions lacking motivation for learning

Understanding why your spouse feels low on motivation for learning is the first step. When a…

Ways to answer a pal who confides “I feel stuck in my life right now”

When a friend says “I feel stuck in my life right now,” the conversation can feel…

How to respond to the inner critic that never rests

Step 1 – Identify the voice of your inner critic Before you can answer the critic, you need to…

What to say when you need to set boundaries with family

INTRODUCTION Setting limits with family members feels awkward, yet protecting your mental health requires clear words.…