What to say when you feel you’re not living up to cultural norms

Feeling out of sync with cultural expectations can weigh heavy on the mind. You may wonder…

How to answer the question “Why aren’t you where you should be?”

When someone asks “Why aren’t you where you should be?” the pressure can feel huge. The…

What to tell yourself when you’re feeling isolated by family expectations

What you tell yourself when family expectations feel heavy can shape how you handle the talk.…

How to reply when you’re told you should “just get over it”

When someone tells you to “get over it,” the comment can feel dismissive and hurtful. Your…

What to remind yourself when you’re exhausted by constant judgment

When you feel drained by nonstop judgment, the mind can feel like a crowded room where…

How to respond to the urge to please everyone

Understanding the urge to please everyone Feeling the need to make every person happy can wear…

What to say when social media makes you feel inadequate

Step 1: Notice the feeling When scrolling through feeds, you may feel a pinch of envy or…

How to answer when you’re pressured to follow a “normal” path

When people push you toward a “normal” path, pressure builds fast. You may feel uneasy, anxious,…

What to tell yourself when perfection feels mandatory

Step 1: Notice the inner voice demanding perfection When a perfect outcome feels mandatory, your mind…

How to respond to the fear of letting others down

Step 1: Name the fear When you feel a knot in your stomach because you think you’ll…