So, you’ve sent a few messages, and… crickets. Radio silence. The dreaded left on read situation. It’s frustrating, and honestly, it can be a bit hurtful too. But don’t worry, I’ve got some tips to help you navigate this situation with grace and confidence.

First things first, take a deep breath and try not to overthink it. It’s possible that the other person is just busy or didn’t see your message. Yeah, it’s possible.

I know, it’s hard to believe, but hear me out.

Before you start crafting a novel-long message or (worse) sending multiple follow-up messages, take a step back and assess the situation. Have you only sent one or two messages? If so, maybe it’s too early to jump to conclusions.

I mean, who hasn’t forgotten to respond to a message or two, am I right?

Here are a few possible responses to consider:

Hey, wanted to check in and see if you got my last message!

Hi again, just making sure you’re okay and not avoiding me

Hey, no rush, just wondering if you’re free to chat sometime this week

Notice how these responses are light-hearted and non-accusatory? That’s key. You don’t want to come across as pushy or aggressive, especially if the other person is genuinely busy or not interested.

Remember, you want to be the cool, calm, and collected one in this situation.

Now, if you’ve sent multiple messages and still haven’t received a response, it might be time to re-evaluate the situation. Are you really interested in pursuing something with someone who can’t be bothered to respond?

Honestly, your time is better spent on someone who actually wants to talk to you.

Here are some example responses for when you’re ready to move on:

Hey, I’ve sent a few messages and haven’t heard back. Guess I’ll just assume you’re not interested. Wish you all the best!

Hi, just wanted to check in one last time. If I don’t hear back, I’ll assume we’re not a good match. Take care!

Hey, I’ve been trying to get in touch, but I think we might not be on the same page. I wish you all the best, and I’m moving on.

Remember to keep these messages brief, polite, and (most importantly) not bitter. You don’t want to burn any bridges or come across as petty.

Yeah, it’s hard to resist the temptation to write a novel-long rant, but trust me, it’s not worth it.

Lastly, don’t take it personally.

I know, easier said than done, right?

But honestly, someone’s lack of response says more about them than it does about you. You’re an amazing person with so much to offer, and if someone can’t see that, then they’re not worth your time.

In conclusion, when someone ignores your messages, take a deep breath, stay calm, and try not to overthink it. Send a light-hearted follow-up message or two, and if you still don’t get a response, it might be time to move on. Remember, your time and energy are valuable, and you deserve someone who will appreciate and respond to you.

So go out there, stay positive, and keep swiping – or not, if that’s not your thing!

Be kind ❤