What to tell yourself when perfection feels mandatory

Step 1: Notice the inner voice demanding perfection When a perfect outcome feels mandatory, your mind…

What to say when you feel trapped by others’ expectations

Understanding the feeling of being trapped When people expect you to act a certain way, pressure…

How to reply to unsolicited advice that drains your confidence

When someone offers advice you never asked for, it can feel like a silent punch to…

How to answer when pressure to succeed feels overwhelming

Step 1 – Pause and breathe When the pressure builds, the first thing to do is stop. Take a…

What to say when a friend’s comments about iMessage get hurtful

Understanding why iMessage jokes hurt When a friend teases you about the way you use iMessage,…