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Find the right words to say
  • Communication
  • Relationships
  • Friendship
  • Dating
  • Texting
  • Work
  • Love
  • Parenting
  • Mental health
  • Family
  • Self-care
  • Personal growth
  • Sarcasm
  • About us
  • AI Laptop Empire (eBook)

Deflecting Plans

What to text back when they ask “Are you busy?” when you’re trying to avoid plans

Texting Avoiding Plans Boundary Setting
When someone asks Are you busy? over text, it can be a bit daunting, especially if…

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